Is Honesty the best Policy

I have a girlfriend who I love like crazy.  But she needs constant encouragement.  She keeps asking me about her hair and if her butt is too big and if I like her hair color and if I think she looks hot.  It is exhausting after a while and sometimes I want to tell her to stop being so self-absorbed.  But that hurts her feelings and she says a real friend would give her more support.  I meditated on this one.  I didn't get an answer, but I think I stretched out a little in the spine in the top of my back.